by Paula Penn-Nabrit, Parent & Author of: Morning by Morning: How We Home-Schooled Our African-American Sons to the Ivy League
Usually
my answer to Why references Aristotle,
All men by nature desire knowledge. As parents, we knew black boys were at
the bottom of every measurement standard other than athletics and given
Aristotle’s statement, we concluded the problem was 'process based'. We were interested in how the process of
institutionalized education shaped the psycho-social development of gifted black
boys and the cultural implications of institutionalized racism on all
inhabitants.
We began homeschooling after
much prayer and the formulation of mission and vision statements derived from our
Allegory of the Blue Cars. In our
allegory everyone’s actively involved in automobile production, yet somehow
many of the blue cars come off the line missing a wheel. Some community members are convinced the
missing wheels are evidence of a conspiracy to destroy blue cars, while others
are convinced it’s evidence of a lack of commitment by the blue car segment of
the community. Both are wrong. The missing wheel is evidence of a design flaw
and emotionally charged accusations and problem repetitions will not fix it.
Instead the design process must be re-tested and all cars, including the blue
cars must be dis-assembled, re-examined, re-designed, re-engineered and then
re-assembled.
Transferring Allegory of the Blue Cars to
institutionalized education we determined Aristotle’s premise meant the absence
of seeking must be a reaction to an external design flaw. Our homeschooling vision
was our gifted black sons emerging as holistically healthy adults, contributing
rather than merely consumptive citizens. Our mission was to create a space
where holistic health would be nurtured and promoted as the telos or highest good.
The vision and mission were
supported by three constructs with cultural components, namely that holistic
health requires: i) acknowledgement
and validation of the child as a spiritual, intellectual and physical being; ii) the study, growth and development of
each aspect of the child; and iii)
the child surrounded by adult versions of himself.
In traditional educational
institutions 85% of teachers in K-12 are Caucasian/white women. This is part of
the design flaw. It inhibits the ability of the gifted black male child to see
himself mirrored in his exploration of the life of the mind. We hired African and African-American graduate
students, mostly male to teach Mathematics, Biology and French. The history of global education speaks to the
viability of single-sex education as an option.
As Caucasian/white women have benefited generationally from institutions
designed for them, deductive reasoning indicates an equally specific
environment designed for them would be beneficial for gifted black boys.
Our school year was expanded
to a 12 month calendar to develop life-long learners committed to
interdisciplinary, subject matter mastery and expertise rather than mere testing
competence. Our curriculum was repetitive, deep and narrow with limited
extracurricular options. Each year they studied Ancient & Global
Literature; Biology; Global History & Geography; Mathematics; Philosophy
& World Religions; and Politics, Governments & Current Events.
Athletics including fencing, football, golf, swimming, tae kwan do and tennis
were experienced through Columbus Parks and Rec Centers because gifted black
boys must develop social skills to interact across broad economic sectors.
Community service and participation in the arts also included. Our sons were
active (if not always willing) participants in The Church of Christ of the
Apostolic Faith’s Bible Bowl teams, choirs, camps and VBS. (They are 5th
generation members of this 100 year old congregation!) By “graduation” each had
over 2,500 hours of volunteer service at Columbus’ COSI (Center of Science and
Industry) where Charles and Evan developed operant conditioning techniques
training rodents for Rat Basketball
and Damon created an independent exhibit, The
Physics of Juggling. Until his voice changed, Charles was a member of
OperaColumbus’ Children’s Chorus performing in Puccini’s Turandot while Damon performed in Mozart’s The Magic Flute as a member of the Opera Guild. From age 7 Evan attended
Saturday School at Columbus College of Art & Design and by 13 was working as
a protégé with the acclaimed African-American artist Roman Johnson. They
attended YMCA Camp, Space Camp, Engineering Camp and Oceanography Camp,
traveled through 40 states, much of Canada, and parts of the Caribbean, Asia
and Europe.
Our experiment spoke to
Erickson’s 4th and 5th stages of psychosocial development
with a specific emphasis on culture. The 4th stage, psychosocial conflicts
around personal competence, was met by an environment designed for them, populated
with adult versions of them and premised upon a quest for holistic health where
their spiritual, intellectual and physical selves were nurtured. Each came to a
deep knowledge of himself, his competence and capacity to determine, define, do
and be good as a prime mover rather than a reactor.
Their movement through
Erickson’s 5th stage, identity and confusion, also was enhanced by
homeschooling. One of the greatest
challenges for gifted black children is moving beyond what I’ve coined The Myth of the Exceptional Negro. This myth takes the normative status of
institutionalized racism and creates a neurological pathway internalizing it-convincing
the gifted black child there are no others. When a black boy is identified as
gifted, he’s relegated to conspicuous
other status, standing alone as he’s told You’re not like them, I don’t even think of you as black. Coming on the heels of the ever-present, I don’t see color, this requirement to
stand alone is poignantly conflicting. This stage also presents challenges for
non-black children affected and infected by institutionalized racism. How is an
Asian or Caucasian/white child (or their parents!) to process the results when
a black boy excels beyond the group? How do teachers and administrators cope
with such an outcome? Too often the gifted black child is expected to navigate
that complex maze while acting as spirit
guide for classmates, teachers and administrators. Homeschooling allowed us
to deduct this variation of the so-called black
tax from our sons’ educational revenue stream.
It was not always a
particularly pleasant experience, but I am very thankful we had the opportunity
to homeschool our gifted black sons.
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Guest Writer's Bio: Recently widowed after 36
years, 8 months and 24 days, Paula Penn-Nabrit is 58 and still challenged by
the struggle between power and submission. She married Charles Madison Nabrit
in 1976 and after law school helped raise and homeschool their sons, Charles,
Damon and Evan. Paula’s written several books, including Morning by Morning:
How We Home-Schooled Our African-American Sons to the Ivy League and The
Power of a Virtuous Woman, lectured extensively around the world with her
consulting firm, PN&A, Inc. www.nabrit.com/pna, teaches Sunday School at the church where her family
has worshipped for over 100 years and is passionate about her501(c)(3), Telos
Training, Inc. Visit Paula and Telos Training, Inc. @ www.telosinc.org and on Facebook.